Back in my entry from April 30, I talked about how we went
about trying to get second opinions from some top research hospitals before
starting Meg on her first line of treatment.
I mentioned how I was calling Johns Hopkins every day, but said that was
a story for another post. Well, this is
that post.
We ended up seeing an oncologist at the Kimmel Cancer Center
at Hopkins, but not until January, when we had a feeling that Meg’s treatment
wasn’t working anymore. We liked the doctor
we met there; he talked about a bunch of treatment options and clinical
trials. There is research going on at
Hopkins that isn’t being done anywhere else, and they are leading or participating in
many trials. We also communicated over
the phone with two other oncologists from Hopkins, and they seemed like really
good doctors to work with. In fact, even
after Georgetown and Sloan Kettering said there was nothing else that could be
done, the Hopkins oncologists were still trying to come up with a treatment
plan. Meg never actually got treated
there, so I can’t speak to what it’s like being a regular patient at Hopkins
and dealing with the large volume of people that are in and out of there every
day. But, if someone living in the DC
area asked me where he or she should go for a second opinion, I would recommend
Hopkins without hesitation. They
seem like knowledgeable, caring doctors, they are plugged into the latest
treatment options, and it’s close enough that you could actually commute there
for treatment if necessary.
So now that I’ve said all this good stuff about Hopkins,
what’s my problem? It’s the fact that we
weren’t able to get a second opinion from them before Meg started treatment,
because I couldn’t get through their referral office to talk with an actual
doctor or nurse. Before I go into more
details, let me relay my experiences with the other places that I contacted.
I called Georgetown on the morning of Thursday, July 5. We still weren’t sure what type of cancer it
was at that point, but they were leaning towards colon cancer. I can’t remember
if I called the main Lombardi Cancer Center number, or a specific number for
the Gastrointestinal Cancer department. But I was immediately connected with a
nurse navigator within that department.
She took our information, emailed me a few forms, and followed up a few
hours later letting us know that we had an appointment for the following Monday
(4 days later). She clearly understood
the urgency of our situation, and made an effort to fit us in as soon as
possible.
I called Memorial Sloan Kettering in October. Megan was having a good response to her
chemotherapy, but we wanted to make an appointment for another opinion
there. We had gotten the name of a
surgeon to call from one of the stomach cancer foundations, so I called her
office directly. The woman who answered
the phone explained that I needed to call the main referral number, and they
would collect our information and pass it to the doctor’s office. So I did that. And I was impressed with the process - the
referral office was very organized. It
seemed like there were quite a few people working there, but I was connected
with one guy specifically, and I talked with him several times over the next
few days. After sending him a fax, I
would call a little while later to check that he received it. He would have it on his computer, and then he
was able to send it directly over to the doctor through an electronic
system. The surgeon reviewed Meg’s files
and said she didn’t see any reason for surgery, and referred us over to a
medical oncologist. He gave a quick
opinion (relayed to me through the referral coordinator) that Meg’s treatment
was looking good and he didn’t see a need for us to travel up there at that
specific moment. When I pressed with a
few more questions, he said that we could make an appointment if we’d like, and
we did that. After we had seen him in
person, we were able to get remote opinions without having to travel back up
there. I would fax over some updated
scan results with a note, and I would get a call back within a day or two from
the oncologist. This was really
convenient, and I just needed to make sure I was ready with all my questions
when he called.
In addition to Georgetown and Sloan, we also got another quick
opinion from an oncologist at Massachusetts General. I had found a trial online, and a family
friend that works at that hospital emailed the oncologist that had led the
trial. The oncologist was actually
traveling, but responded within an hour and referred us to his nurse. I left
her a message, she called me back an hour later, and we talked about what made
sense for Meg’s situation. I had one
more question for the oncologist about the chemo regimen, and she followed up
and got me answer within a few hours.
Now back to Hopkins. I
looked around on their website to find the right number to call. No matter what cancer I looked at, every
webpage had the same number listed when you clicked on “Request an
Appointment.” So I called that number on July 2 (a Monday).
An automated system answered, and I was told “For Medical Oncology press 1, for Radiation Oncology press 2.” Huh? I
had no idea which number to press. There
was no other option, and I didn’t know what to do, so I actually hung up the
phone. I thought, "Why do I have to decide between
medical oncology and radiation oncology?
Don’t I want both of them? My wife just got diagnosed with cancer, and I
have no clue what the difference between those two things even is!" This wasn’t starting off too well. I thought about it for a few minutes and
called back. Medical oncology seemed a
little broader; radiation oncology seemed very specific. So I pressed 1.
Then I sat on hold.
And I continued to sit on hold.
For over an hour. Seriously. This was the first big hospital I was
calling, so I thought maybe this was the norm.
Finally, I got frustrated enough that I just hung up and called
again. This time someone picked up
within two minutes of being on hold. I
could say maybe that was a coincidence, but I had this situation repeat itself
several times. Sit on hold for 15
minutes, hang up and call again, and then someone answers right away. Obviously their phone system is not ideal.
But all of that would’ve been forgiven if the person that
answered the phone was helpful. I told
them the details of Meg’s situation, just like I told Georgetown a few days
later. She had been diagnosed with
cancer, the local hospital had run a bunch of tests, but they hadn’t been able
to figure out exactly what it was yet. I
said that I wanted to get my wife into Hopkins and have their doctors look at
her case. The woman flatly responded by
telling me that she could not make an appointment until we had a specific
diagnosis. Hmm.
One year later, I can see why she said this. At least in theory. The oncologists at our community hospital
dealt with all types of cancers.
Oncologists at the large research hospitals typically have very narrow
specialties, and the departments are broken apart by cancer type. So she needed to know who to direct us
to. Even still, I don’t think that “I’m
sorry, I can’t help you yet” is an acceptable answer. She literally told me that we had two
options. We could either wait until we
get a specific diagnosis and then call back to make an appointment, or we could
check Megan into the Emergency Room at Hopkins so that they could run all their
own tests and make their own diagnosis. Meg had already been through a battery of
exams, and her condition was rapidly deteriorating. To check her into an ER and make her redo all
of the MRI’s and CT scans and blood work and doctor's exams seemed absolutely
ridiculous. So that was not an option.
I really wish that I could’ve spoken to a nurse at that
point. From my experience, if they would
have connected me to a nurse navigator, she probably could’ve been much more
helpful and made a determination about what type of doctor we should’ve made an
appointment with. But being a novice, I
didn’t know what to ask for, and I didn’t think there were any other numbers I
could call.
The next day we got the word that it was likely colon
cancer. I called the woman back, said that
it was now diagnosed as colon cancer and explained the urgency of the
situation. She gave me an appointment
for about two weeks out. I asked if
there was anything sooner, and she said no.
That Thursday (two days later) we found out it was gastric
cancer. I called her back again, asking
if there was any way we could see someone any sooner, as the local doctors were
urging us to start chemo the following Tuesday.
She gave me an appointment with a different doctor, and said the
earliest possible appointment was the next Friday. At this point I was getting really
frustrated. I called her back the next
day and asked if there was anything else that opened up. She now told me that if I faxed copies of the
scans to her, she could give them to the nurses and get a quick opinion from a
clinic. I sent her two of the scans that
day, and then we received another one over the weekend and I sent it to her on
Sunday night. My gmail has four emails
sent to her over those few days, with no responses from her. I tried getting in touch on Monday, left a
message, and didn’t get a call back. We
got the second opinion from Georgetown, Meg started chemo, and we forgot about
Hopkins for the time being.
Four months later, we saw the oncologist at Memorial
Sloan-Kettering. He said he would
actually classify Megan’s cancer as esophageal cancer. We hadn’t really heard that before. So I started looking into esophageal cancer,
and found my way back to the Hopkins website.
I found this page:
On that page was this paragraph:
Same-day consultations with a team of esophageal experts
The need for immediate, effective treatment is why the esophageal cancer experts at Johns Hopkins created a multi-disciplinary clinic for esophageal cancer patients. Patients, both those already diagnosed and those who may have symptoms, can call in and talk to an esophageal cancer care coordinator who can direct them to their first steps, whether that is diagnosis and staging or an appointment with the multidisciplinary team. Patients can also find out about available clinical trials during that call.
Down towards the bottom of the page, there was a number to
call. It was different than the number
that the “Request an Appointment” link on the right side of that very same page
gave me. So I called this new number,
and I was connected directly to the department.
I gave the woman who answered the phone a little bit of information, and
later that day I received a call back from a nurse. At that point, Megan’s situation wasn’t
urgent, so after talking with her, we decided it made sense to just schedule an
appointment with an oncologist and take things from there. However, I believe that if I had talked to
her during that first week, she would’ve gotten Meg’s information in front of
the right doctor immediately.
I think their system really failed us. There was a reasonable chance that Hopkins might have had a trial that could’ve been an option for Meg back in July. (Now, there’s no reason to necessarily believe a trial would’ve been better for her than the treatment she received - you can check the April 30 post for more info on this). But I tried to get one of the top ranked hospitals in the country to review Megan’s case, and I felt like I was stonewalled. And I recently heard from someone else who tried making an appointment with the same oncologist that we saw, around the same time that we saw him. But she was told that he does not see stomach cancer patients, and she got really frustrated knowing that they were wrong. So I don't think my experience is completely unique.
I learned that sometimes, instead of calling the main phone number that they display in large print, you might be better off calling a doctor’s office directly. All of the nurses I spoke with on the phone were really helpful, and by and large, the doctors seemed like they tried to respond pretty quickly. It’s very disappointing that patients may not be getting a much needed opinion just because someone in the Hopkins referral office won’t connect them with a nurse. So call directly if you feel like that is happening to you. The large cancer centers have the doctors and nurse coordinators listed on their website, and they usually have a direct office line listed. It just might take a little digging to find it.